As a pediatric Sleep specialist and registered nurse, I've seen firsthand the tremendous impact a consistent bedtime routine can have on a child's sleep quality. The surprising truth? You can—and should—start implementing a bedtime routine from day one of your baby's life.
Why Start So Early?
Establishes healthy sleep habits
Provides structure and security for your child
Helps signal to your baby that it's time to sleep
Can make bedtime easier as your child grows

The Ideal Bedtime Routine: Keep It Short and Sweet
A common misconception is that bedtime routines need to be long and elaborate. In reality, a quick, consistent routine is often more effective. Here's my recommended routine:
Put on pajamas
Change diaper
Read one book
Brush teeth (if applicable)
Sing the same song while holding your child
Put them down awake
Say "Good night, it's time for sleep" and leave the room
This entire process should take no more than 15-20 minutes. Keeping it brief prevents overstimulation and makes it easier to maintain consistency.
The Importance of Consistency
Consistency is key when it comes to bedtime routines. This becomes especially crucial during transitions, such as moving to a toddler bed or traveling. Maintain as much of the routine as possible during these times to provide comfort and familiarity.
Self-Soothing Objects
Items like blankets, loveys, or pacifiers can become an important part of a child's sleep routine. Even infants as young as one month old may come to rely on these objects for comfort. If your child has a preferred sleep aid, try to make it a consistent part of their routine.
Setting Boundaries
It's important to establish and maintain bedtime boundaries. If you don't typically rub your child's back as they fall asleep, don't start—even if they ask for it. Changing the routine can actually increase anxiety and make sleep more difficult.
Remember: children thrive on structure and predictability. A consistent, short bedtime routine from day one can significantly enhance your child's sleep quality and make bedtime a peaceful experience for the whole family.
If you find yourself struggling with bedtime routines, don’t hesitate to reach out for support. My “Expert Strategy Session” call is a great opportunity to discuss your specific situation and get personalized advice on how to manage bedtime effectively. Remember, you don’t have to wing it. With the right education and support, you can help your child adjust to a new bedtime routine with ease!
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